caffeine wrote:
But if this is how you define oppression, then it's an inherent part of living in a society, and every single one of us is being oppressed in almost everything we do.
That pretty much seems to be the argument, as far as I understand it: The Patriarchy Is Everywhere, even in mundane things like shaved armpits. Except that every single one of us is not being oppressed equally, some people are more oppressed than others.
I mean, I sort of see the point they're making... If you say "Let women choose whether to focus on their career or their family, either choice is valid", and you just leave it at that, that overlooks the fact that existing social structures push women into this either-or choice and make it difficult for them to do both.
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If she believes that it was she wants, then that is what she wants, by definition (though, of course, this is not necessarily the same as what will make her happy, or healthy or successful or whatever).
And that is when they argue that women who want things that aren't beneficial to them are deluded. And that is when I have problems. I mean, I strongly disagree with the Catholic Church's position that birth control is immoral, but I do not believe that Catholic women who adhere to this position are deluded, oppressed, or brainwashed. I think they're wrong, but that's different.