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Post Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 8:56 pm |
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Steave wrote: my ... polyamorous, bisexual, Anglican church presided ... marriage Mine too! *fistbump*
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Post Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 9:46 pm |
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inspiration wrote: gay monogamous in-the-process-of-divorce-from-an-abusive-husband cis woman. Gay not bi?
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Post Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 9:48 pm |
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Love is simple, people are complicated.
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Post Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 8:24 am |
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Steave wrote: inspiration wrote: gay monogamous in-the-process-of-divorce-from-an-abusive-husband cis woman. Gay not bi? Yes -- in her own words "I tried so hard not to be. I tried so hard to be straight. Then I thought maybe I could at least be bi." But it just made her miserable ... and of course now that she's come out I wish her so much happiness and healing!
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Post Posted: Sat Mar 02, 2013 5:41 pm |
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Not that I'm excusing his abuse (in fact I'll still strongly condemn it) but that marriage must've sucked for all involved. I'm lucky that when I was denying myself it was that I was bi. It wass easy to pretend to only like women when I at least do like women. I hope she finds it easier to find some happiness now.
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Post Posted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 2:50 am |
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Apparently she was the instigator of all physical relations between them and he was the one constantly rejecting her and declaring their marriage a celibate one several years ago. And still had the gall to claim he "saved" her from being a lesbian by marrying her. UGH! Sorry, that guy isn't even worth the effort to type about him, so I will let that lie at last. I do very much hope she finds happiness (of course, because she is a dear friend) and that it is with someone monogamous and female-identified and awesome. 
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What the... that's against expectations.
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Post Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 2:15 pm |
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inspiration wrote: Heh, this exact same issue has now cropped up in my friends circle with a bisexual polyamorous married cis woman secretly pining after a gay monogamous in-the-process-of-divorce-from-an-abusive-husband cis woman. That kind of makes the last situation look terrifically simple.  Update for the curious: bi poly woman professed her love, gay monogamous woman said "I love you too, but I can't do the poly thing," and apparently they've gone back to being friends with minimal weirdness. So, happy ending of sorts!
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Post Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:06 pm |
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Yay! Not the very best outcome (I'm a romantic and love it when professions of love are requited and followed through with smooches), but still satisfying!
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